What are your recommendations on how I should gently handle this situation?

I gently told her "if you want to get this, we can afford it but just to be safe you need to work one day a month more". 

The only twist for you would be any issues with the international movement of funds.

Whether you are ultimately the one buying it or an assignee or a partner, the buyers out there in the world will buy a good deal If you truly do have one to offer.Step 2: Learn how to communicate with property owners.Your job is not to twist anybody’s are into submission.

Keep in mind this is with me taking care of it with kid gloves and using gentle, non-abrasive cleaners because I'm the actual owner.

They may twist it in a bind saying they ment that the Realitor received it not the seller at that point.

This is my first time posting here and I’m in the middle of trying to figure out my first deal, so please be gentle!

Pre-foreclosure PLUS major health issues is a combo large enough to sink anyone's ship.So, I'd handle these folks very gently.

But we gave option for a $7,500 deposit and the gentle is good with that to put down as a deposit.

You'll also be able to pull ~$5k out of the refi.To add a little twist, if you continue to pay the full $880/month payment after refi, you'll pay off your loan ~4 years earlier and save yourself ~$19k in interest.