I was not properly prepared for the combination of my work schedule (full time - surprise week of travel), holiday prep (gifts, 5 separate school performances for the kids, kids sports/logistics, hosting new years party), finalizing my engagement plans, and the increase of contact with possible sellers (formulating my first offers ever).  

But it seems that every "solution" that I offer is combatted with another reason that we shouldn't.She's saying that we are too young (she is 21 as well) and although I know that REI takes time, what better time than when we're both young to formulate a plan, and put it into action?

Of course, the SELLER must never be made aware of how you formulate your Offers, right?

But you have to talk to sellers to find out their whole situation before you can formulate creative solutions.

Throughout the last 3 years, I've read many BP articles and listened to countless podcasts in order to help myself formulate a strategy in this vast world of Real Estate Investing.

Just develop a very specific investment goal, read books, join a local REI group, formulate a definite plan/strategy to meet your goal, develop self-confidence, surround yourself with others doing it, then TAKE ACTION!

Ideally you'd want someone who has some experience with foreign ownership (for your MX condo).Send me a message if you need help formulating any questions to ask them.

The other thoughts are well-formulated and run the spectrum of what I'm familiar with, from "Zillow contributed to a bubble and now they're trying to avoid paying the piper" to "this is just normal winter cool-off." 

Inflation today, as measured by the CPI as formulated in 1980 is a tad over 15%.

Take that time to educate yourself & formulate a plan.