can someone please help me out! very desperate - irresponsible person

[Isabella Mendes]

Hi,

I have $400k that my husband left me after the divorce. I never worked my whole life and I'm not finding jobs...seem to be procrastinating. Im also very irresponsible with money. I need to do something with this money so it's locked for me to dont spend everything and also I need to figure out a way to get some income every month so I can support myself. Can you please give me suggestions? I need to decide asap!