But I think Than's marketing program materials are some of the most comprehensive out there when it comes to more bang for the buck.

I have a full time job and provide 95% of our household income so the majority of the real estate work/classwork will have to be done outside of regular business hours (mon-fri 8-4 for me), at least for the time being. 

So Matt K if I do a flip using hard money and put my money into it but since I have none if I pull out a couple 0% first year credit cards and say I do the flip in six months (is that reasonable for a single family household?)

I need to find a good comprehensive list of both expense/repair and capex items to help me come up with some better estimates outside of the 50% rule

Not exactly sure if they are going to meet every detail you're looking for here, but in my opinion they do provide the most comprehensive market data out there.

a home w/ FHA needs to be your primary household for 1 year.... and by that it means you have to live in it the majority of the time.

By age 16 I found myself able to handle most household repairs. 

Household furniture must be positioned and/or elevated to allow adequate air flow underneath and between furnishings and adjacent walls.

I agree with @Max Householder to have a meeting/call with them and find out why they have not had any showing.

So I am now teaching, which cut our household income by about a third.