It might calm her if she knows she has a right to it for her life (though it sounds unlikely that she will be going back). 

Again, other might feel differently here.b) Skin in the game: as a conservative investor, I understand that the dirty secret of industries that the waterfall compensation is in the line with me and incentivizes sponsors to take more risk.

(Not including parameters such as Sponsor experience, Fees, return, waterfall etc).For example, a few Input numbers we are typically given in PPM/Pitch Deck and can use include the following:INCOME:1.

You have to go past Anger, and Denial and when you get to Acceptance, then you can think calmly.

Juniper Square for me was powerful and if you are offering complicated equity structure with waterfalls all over the place then that is your tool. 

The infamous Neverland Ranch, in the Santa Ynez Valley, spans 2,700 acre and has a 12,000-square-foot French Normandy-style mansion, three guesthouses, a movie theater, a train station and a 4-acre lake with a waterfall.

I feel a bit like this is the calm before the storm haha but we would like to get the ball moving sooner rather than later, so any advice from people is appreciated.

If someone wants to chose stress in real estate it's their choice. i chose terms that are congruent with my desire for peace and a calm.

I'll probably wait till this madness calms down.

Instead of immediate gratification, will people calm down and actually look at the house they are buying and start being more sensible with their offers.