For example, in NC the only dark blue areas are the largest counties in the state, even though Brunswick (Wilmington NC) and Pender Counties are growing faster as a percentage of population increase.

Its like the old joke you don't have to run faster than the bear, you just have to run faster than your friend.

If you or your brother can house hack, that can also offer you great low down payment programs and help you build your wealth even faster.  

**Faster Turnaround**: Brokers can usually provide a BOV/BPO more quickly than the time it takes to get a full appraisal, which can be useful in time-sensitive situations[1][2][3].3.

At the time inventory was growing much faster than it is now.

Good thing with expensive property like @jason mentioned is that the appreciation per year basis is rising faster than expense cost.Also home in CA does not require HVAC, so it can't be stolen.

You will see higher returns through appreciation as the city is growing at a much faster rate. 

The thing I don't understand about this so-called "exodus" from blue states to red states is why are property prices in blue states rising at faster and faster rates.

You are simply paying down debt significantly faster than those who use those calculation.Also, if possible do not sell.

It’s taxes are and regulations are lax and the market is going to grow faster then Seattles did.