you go girl!

Its interesting to ponder but I really believe Bigger Pockets is having a tremendous impact on a new generation of real estate investors.  

Ponder that for a bit. 

I have ponder about my decision so long I just finally want to make one.

All my properties are turnkey, so can answer any questions you have on that route if you're definitely pondering it.Reach out anytime!

I think it depends on the girl. she might decide she doesn't need to pay her boyfriend or what happens if you break up.

One option most ponder over is becoming a Real Estate Agent in the desired market area and is even advocated for in the BP Podcast.The main reason a License is beneficial seems to be due to the ability to be your own buyers agent and save on some closing costs as well as a foundation on which to understand the paperwork and processes of a standard transaction. 

I have 2 beautiful girls, the ages of 3 and 8, that I realized that if i didn't make a change.

You should figure out what your Niche and Strategy would be first.The Best Beginner’s Real Estate Investing Course OnlineModule 3 explains Niches and Strategies.I will be Flipping Single Family Houses (to make Cash) and reinvesting that cash in additional flips and also Buy and Hold Single Family Houses and Small Multi Families up to 4-plex for long term.I have not narrowed down my Area (Zip Code) yet.You could also House Hack your first Property while LearningHere is another post similar to yours:https://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/12/topics/413684-i-pondering-what-to-do-next-want-to-make-a-good-investmenthttps://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/12/topics/413149-what-direction-should-this-newcomer-go

This is a person who has been a great tenant and I hated to think she was using space heaters to heat the place with a little girl.