I like overseeing and being involved, but I also believe in letting skilled practitioners do what they do best.

The trick is knowing when to stop manipulating data, just because you can doesn't mean you really need to.Like Law, Accounting is an art and science, there is a judgment call by good practitioners as to how far or how deep one needs to go to yield a more desirable outcome.

My wife works between  50-70 hours a week as a nurse practitioner and I know that it kills her that she cannot be home with us as much as she would like.

You've just got to make sure your doctor is a qualified practitioner rather than a snake oil salesman.  

I went on to a cite sponsored by tax practitioners (paid prepares, tax focused cpa's and tax attorneys) and even with them this exact same question gets about 50% on one side and 50% on the other. 

My wife works as a Nurse Practitioner in Racine, Wi.

Are there any seasoned BRRRR practitioners who are willing to jump on the phone to advise me?

Half of them are wrong, and the other half are easily misinterpreted by the non-practitioner.

I am 31, I’m a nurse practitioner and am honestly sick of the 9-5 and just want financial freedom.

While I think there is something to be said about doing business in your community, you might find that a majority of tax practitioners are generalist who may work with many industries and be the proverbial jack of all trades, master of none.