This is fraught with risk and destroying your personal life / marriage.

Congratulations on your recent marriage!

keep in mind that a Property Management Agreement is like a long Marriage, easy to get in to it, Costly and hard to get out of it.  

My marriage strained under the pressure, my financial burdens mounted, and the disappointment in my children's eyes mirrored the turmoil within my soul.

I'm in no rush to move out and would only consider it if there was a strong enough reason (better income, good job, marriage, etc.) 

It’s important to highlight several key restrictions that apply to the Affordable ADU:No Related Renters: The Affordable ADU cannot be occupied or leased to the owner, any relatives (by blood or marriage) of the owner, anyone employed by the owner, or anyone connected to any entities involved in ownership of the property.Student Dependents: The Affordable ADU may not be leased to student dependents, as defined in the U.S.

Your new marriage is WAY more important than real estate.

However, managing our out of state nightly rental takes more than a text or two and not worth the stress in my marriage to have to keep dealing with little and big issues that come up.

Usually life events such as job relocation, birth (or death) of a family member, marriage, divorce, etc.

Partnerships are like marriages so tread carefully as you have seen alot of marriages end badly.