You can put a mortgage into a "trust: without triggering a due on sale but again contacting your bank/lender is the best route to avoid any issues.Some banks/lenders or servicing companies change guidelines and even a trust may require other paperwork but the attorney usually facilitates that to be safe.  

Plus, I’m not a “people person” and I know my weaknesses. 

If you have, you have put yourself at great personal risk.Again, I recommend you get a lawyer as soon as possible.

When I tried to get it when my side of the family found out and tried tp take over reverse mortgage payments to bank because she had died it was to late so they sold the house to Hud and then other reverse mortgage companies but a relative still lives there so they can't kick them out.

@Erica King Sounds like this is more of a personal budgeting concern rather than a real estate one.

However, you can get loans that are based on the performance of the rental and not your personal income and debt.

The vast majority of contractors won't want to give bids on properties while under contract unless they have a relationship with that person from prior jobs.

No personal experience with them. 

But what it's really doing is making me a better business person. 

A new person moves in and she says the upstairs neighbors are creating a ton of noise.