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David T. Multi-Family Loan with Friends Dilemma
13 September 2020 | 1 reply
You are going into business together; so, it's common to jointly sign documents.The biggest risk challenge is putting your friendships at risk. 
Gregory Pitts Finding a Mentor - How do I give them value?
8 May 2021 | 11 replies
@Gregory Pitts - it speaks for your personality that you don't want to take something for nothing, but mentorship is like friendship - you can't buy it.I have been an investor for more than a decade and sometimes host a meetup as a member of our local group or talk about a topic - and I am happy to answer questions and volunteer my time - but once in a while someone wants to buy me coffee in exchange for some what you have to label as nothing short of "serious consulting work", basically listening to their entire life story and then helping them develop a strategy to go from zero to hero.
Patrick Eddy 50/50 on a house hack?
6 May 2021 | 3 replies
It will definitely put the friendship at risk.
Andy F. Books Education on Apartments
21 January 2017 | 10 replies
While apartment investing is exactly what I do personally, in the interest of keeping a good friendship intact neither one of us is interested in my teaching/training him.
Iaroslav Demydovych First time private money borrowing, need guidance!
12 July 2022 | 11 replies
The fastest way to ruin a friendship is with money.Second - I would advocate your lender get a lender's title policy, and their lien would hopefully be the first lien against the property.
Shalom Wininger Some questions on starting house flipping
11 April 2023 | 27 replies
You need to find that flipper first  before you would go looking for a deal to partner on and earn their trust / friendship and show them your work ethic… maybe assisting them in their project.  
Jeremy Albers Newbie in Greensboro North Carolina
15 December 2018 | 7 replies
Look forward to many new friendships and partnerships.
Sean Beyrouthy Should I buy an investment property under LLC or under my name?
3 March 2022 | 8 replies
Best friendships have been ruined in business partnerships, mostly because everyone thought "We are all friends...we are good here, we need nothing in writing!"
Dan Williams Are banking relationships important? or does it mean you are over leveraged
9 March 2023 | 21 replies
My definition of a banking relationship is a business account with the bank to start out, then a history of successful loan payments.Some people think it means work with one bank and have dinner and cocktails with an employee of the bank--personally I don't think that.I think unless you are one of the banks "High net worth" clients using that service, your interest rate and terms will be about the same flexibility as another borrower with your experience, and credit rating and financial picture.I think the "Old Buddies" system of granting credit went out with the Horse and Buggy, replaced by the computer.Not to say that ABC Lenders might not be more flexible on terms, or willing to cut you deal on some other aspect of the loan if they really need to make the loan, or it serves some civic purpose (maybe neighborhood revitalization, etc..).It seems to me the computer is going to dictate the terms and policy (not personal friendship with an employee) and will dictate allowable modifications.If I am wrong on this, BANK LENDERS let me know.I am talking about Bank relationships here, vs Hard Lenders or Independent Brokers.Just my 2 cents.The Old Buddies system of Loans: https://www.youtube.com/watch?
Nathan Gesner When is it OK to talk about money?
7 December 2021 | 47 replies
The questions I get are not out of courteously with the intent to learn but more so out of jealousy and has strained at least one friendship.