Here’s my problem: everyone keeps telling me it’s business and I need to send her to collections, but I struggle with the idea of pinging her credit and her not being able to find a place to go for her children.

Buy your wife flowers.Hey @Daniel K Houck - first thing, congrats on achieving the dream of having a beautiful family with a solid wife that loves you enough to have 4 children :)Second, is sounds like you are comparing yourself to the people on the podcast - don't.

If you want to get a tenant out to sell the property or move back in, you have to pay a relocation fee which varies according to number of tenants, if there are minor children, if tenant has a disability or over age 65.

We have had nurses from Valleywise, Phoenix Children's and St.

Like if I offered to buy his furniture too?

On the asset side you would show assets you personally own including houses, cars, furniture, life insurance policies, etc. 

Say her ESA is a cow and this is a condo with no yard (just to be extreme) or this dog is a barking nuisance with many complaints, bites some children, and has rabies. 

I checked out all the beaches from Sunset to the outer banks and this is what my wife and I surmised: We immediately crossed OBX off our list because it was very far and because of the lack of medical care nearby…you have to think of these things once you have children.

Like if I offered to buy his furniture too?

So, I guess in short, stability has a greater priority, while in the long term, I lean towards possession and wealth building that maybe even my children take advantage of.