I did get some help from friends from time to time, which was greatly appreciated, but most of the time I was torturing myself, trying to figure things out.

I too went through 10 years of complete undue pain and torture from HughesNet's Satellite internet service.  

As other said selling now, even at a loss, may be a better option then a slow torturous death. 

PUNT - - write it all off as BAD DEBT and move on.You've already concluded "she cant pay" so why torture yourself?

Oh I tortured a ton of brokers haha.

You pay them to torture and negotiate against you and make you miserable.

Stairs are in good shape - Im also painting and gluing on new stair threads.Man Im glad I started this thread - otherwise I would have never heard the story about Matthew burning and torturing the floors with chains.

Then they torture the conventional LO as they whine about how much paperwork they have to provide. 

It felt like I asked if I could shoot child pornography in her units and kick her back 20% of the profits.I'm legitimately confused and any suggestions would help but just reading this was probably torture enough for your guys.

I know I can track trends, but it is also kind of torturous to look at listings and see great deals when you don't have the money.