Have a frank conversation with the property manager. 

Property management vs. self-managing:Self-managing—at least in the beginning—can be invaluable.

That is a good thing but if you have never managed it can still go sideways.

Deciding to buy a duplex or SFH.  

@Andreas Mathews admirable, but make sure you do some research so you understand what a PM can make.Starting your own PMC business will require 75-150 doors to make a decent living, depending on gross rents and your fee structre.Working for a SFR PMC as a PM, will require a RE license and you usually get paid a percentage of the gross rents the portfolio of owners/properties you manage generates.

And the split is whatever you decide on. 50/50 is what a lot of people usually do.

I would like a book or program recommendations in order to learn how to purchase and manage the extended stay hotel.

I KNOW I am not up to Accredited.It seems to me to be "backwards" thinking that there is LESS risk to a 'novice' in a FUND since the risk is spread out over many Notes and professionally managed, whereas an Individual Note seems like it would carry WAY more risk, especially picking the 'right one' for your investing goals, budget, etc...? 

Because you live on the property, management will be easier.

Are you currently self-managing or do you have a management company?