I would send them a card and thank themBut decline .you don’t want to mix business and personal affairs like in this situation .

But I want to be squeaky clean also if we have to prove that our LLC finances are separate from our personal affairs in instance of litigation.   

Loans against 401K plans are an acceptable source of down payment for most types of loans.government loan (mortgage)A mortgage that is insured by the Federal Housing Administration (FHA) or guaranteed by the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) or the Rural Housing Service (RHS).

Had renters having affairs with other renters wives.

Fortunately, when it comes to IRAs, since I had Power of Attorney for dad's affairs, I already have a working relationship with most of them!! 

I think each one should have their own LLC partnering into an LLC for these type of endeavors.You need to read these threads:https://www.biggerpockets.com/renewsblog/effectively-conduct-joint-venture-agreements-as-a-real-estate-investor/https://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/48/topics/596231-how-do-i-properly-construct-a-purchase-with-a-partnershiphttps://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/51/topics/591376-create-an-llc-for-first-partnership-best-way-to-do-sohttps://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/51/topics/526244-taking-on-partner-s-and-limiting-our-liabilites- one base idea of asset protection (and LLC) is to separate your personal affairs from the real estate investing.

They tend to have affairs and gamble.

I am starting my own LLC and am looking for someone who knows or has experience in dealing with Veterans Affairs guaranteed Small Business Loans through the Small Business Assosciation..

The individual who passed was going in and out of the hospital for over a year, which leads some of us to believe that her financial affairs (i.e. other late bills were in the mail also) were getting neglected. 

However the more time the better for you to line up your affairs.4.