Hard money lenders are used to private loans like this and will help you evaluate the borrower, the property, and you as well, to make sure this loan is suitable (Not a solicitation.

Or try to find somewhere we can stay temporarily like a long term hotel or month to month apartment (pricey and defeats the purpose of gaining cash flow) until we find another more suitable home? 

@Jacob RogersPortions of Jackson are more rental zone and we have JV duplex rental there.You have to see the best way and follow the "Fair Housing" and other guidelines to find suitable tenants

Rules about use of kitchens and common areas, visitors, quiet hours, etc.

I missed my opportunity for reinvestment of funds using 1031X (couldn't find a suitable property) and now I'm facing a $60k hit for the sale.

I'm looking for a suitable mortgage lender who can help me achieve my goals. 

Unless that was the most suitable option for their needs and their current situation.... hmmmm... 🤔🤔 Wait.

If your family grows sufficiently in size that the current home is no longer suitable AND your current LTV based on a new appraisal is below 75%3. 

:0(Forced to sell home / condo - in 2009 - could not find suitable work = sustainable incomeGave away most all contents in condo = books, sofa, etc to SALVATION ARMY prior to saleBeen in Poverty for over a decadeFinally found work bagging groceries for 2+ years / 3 hours PER WEEK as ONLY JOB making $35 / wkI have been wearing mainly the same clothes for 15+ years - purchased some at Goodwill & SAVERSNo Gym memberships for 8+ years, just on and off as "guest" & walking the surrounding neighborhoodsNo Vehicle for 6+ yearsOn Food Stamps for 5 yearsLiving with Parent for support for 10 years and still here !!

On the other hand, extended stay tenants, much like a hotel visitors, expect everything to be provided.