When I pressed for a firm date, the conversation turned negative.

Can I press charge for trespassing against tenant and code inspector? 

Terrific...https://www.nmhc.org/news/press-release/2020/apartment-industry-urges-sba-and-treasury-to-amend-paycheck-protection-program-to-enable-multifamily-participation/

https://portal.ct.gov/Office-of-the-Governor/News/Press-Releases/2020/04-2020/Governor-Lamont-Signs-Executive-Order-Providing-Residential-Rent-Protections?

If you do that and the lender gets huffy, that would be a red flag.I'm sure the lender wants the deal to close and to stay in good standing with your broker, so if there isn't a good explanation for what you saw on the fee estimate I'm guessing they would modify things if the buyer pressed the issue.

The tactics, strategies, and techniques of investing are the bench press, squats, and deadlifts of working out.

I know many lenders have pressed paused.....if not then they have tweaked guidelines. 

March 30, 2020 Official Guidance for NJ Real EstateIn Governor Murphy's press conference today, he made two updates to Executive Order 107, clarifying which businesses may be allowed to operate during the COVID-19 pandemic.

Now we have the opposite scenario, lending standards are high, inventory is very low and demand is pressing.

For you though, right now, you need to weigh your losses and how much you want to press them on the contract.