Maybe you can send them a certified letter stating what they did in detail and give them a deadline to fix it. 

Read the fine print and meet the deadlines. 

The repayment terms for a 401k participant loan are equal monthly/quarterly payments of principal and interest (typically prime plus 1%) over a 5 year term (longer if used to acquire your principal residence).Please note that if you take a full $50,000 and then pay back the loan, you can't take another $50,000 until 12 months after the first loan was fully paid back.Per the loan offset rules that went into effect with the 2018 Tax and Job Act: if you leave your job and the loan is current at the time you leave your job but then the loan goes into default because you left your job, you will have until your tax return deadline (including any timely filed extension) to make the loan current by depositing the outstanding balance into an IRA (and thereby avoid the taxes and penalties that would otherwise apply).Alternative: Rollover Funds to A Solo 401k & Take a 401k loan or Invest in Real Estate DirectlyIf you are self-employed (i.e. active self-employment earned income separate from your w-2 income) with no full-time w-2 employees, you can set up a Solo 401k and then rollover your 401k funds once you leave your current job [NOTE: You generally can't rollover funds that you saved to your current employer plan until you quit.].You could then take a loan of up to 50% of the balance not to exceed $50,000.

Maybe just start with 2 at a time with 12 hour deadlines and then do 2 more.

I'm hoping that you have a financing contingency and that the deadline to exercise it hasn't passed - but even if it has, you still cannot go through with the sale.  3.

However, when a 'highest and best' request is made with a definite deadline for offers, I'll explain how escalations work and why they are helpful rather than blindly throwing more money at a deal when it may not be necessary.

Definitely willing to move faster, but I need deadlines :)Any advice or connections welcome!!

Hired a Real Estate Agent because it was my first home purchase and I had a very short and strict deadline.

THE DEADLINE IS JANUARY 31!

It's highly unlikely that we can finish all of their demands in the 60 days and 14 days deadlines they provided on the house.