I can pick up the phone and will, but I have this feeling they are punishing me for being unhappy with them and I think it is less likely that I will get what I want if past actions are predictive.

I hate doing dishes and it is additional punishment to look up at a wall while doing them. 

Also, if you want to hold them to the new lease end date you must, under the law, mitigate their damages which means you have to diligently try to rent the place out ......it sounds to me like they were trying to uphold your requests... so i would not punish them for doing so! 

But here's the problem: who do you report them to, who investigates it, and how will they be punished?

This was changed a few years ago.https://le.utah.gov/xcode/Title78B/Chapter6/78B-6-S802.htmlA tenant holding real property for a term less than life is guilty of an unlawful detainer if the tenant...continues in possession of the property in person or by subtenant after the end of any month or period, in cases where the owner, the owner's designated agent, or any successor in estate of the owner, 15 calendar days or more before the end of that month or period, has served notice requiring the tenant to quit the premises at the expiration of that month or period...

But an eviction means they refused to and they forced another landlord to sue and go through an unlawful detainer action to recover possession of the property.

There's an attorney in Orlando who has a great website devoted to this exact topic that is a must-read: https://www.richardhornsby.com/crimes/regulatory/u...It states: "In Florida, it is unlawful to engage in the following real estate related activities for compensation without possessing a real estate broker's license or sales associate license.Advertising or marketing another person's timeshare or property for compensation.Auctioning or attempting to auction another person's property for compensation.Buying or attempting to buy real estate on behalf of another person for compensation.Listing another person's timeshare or property for compensation.Operating as a real estate broker or sales associate without a license.Renting, leasing, or attempting to rent or lease real estate on behalf of another person for compensation...The crime of Unlicensed Practice of Real Estate is a Third Degree Felony and assigned a Level 1 offense severity ranking under Florida’s Criminal Punishment Code.If convicted of Unlicensed Practice of Real Estate in Florida, a judge can impose any combination of the following penalties:Up to five (5) years in prison.Up to five (5) years of probation.Up to $5,000 in fines."

And that I need to file an unlawful detainer I argue with them I told them that I lived on the property that the person what's a lodger who is unwanted never had a rental agreement never paid rent I refuse to leave and I also explained.

(unless there is punishment (perjury charge).2.

I guess my question boils down to if there was anyway I could get an estimate on the terms of the loan, and what the amount I would be approved for without being punished for it.Kind of like how contractors give free estimates for their services.