Make a new Contract that says 1) you have option to keep or they have to remove pool at end and RE-grass.

Even though you are fed alot of BS about Wholesaling I would not recommend Wholesaling as the place to be in when you first start out. 

I now tie my identity to daily activities (learning and improvement) and the results are taking care of themselves.I am understanding and gaining control over my mind (your #1 above).I hit the gym first thing in the morning and eat a can of tuna and low sugar protein shake for breakfast...a workout and 45 grams of protein is a good way to kick off the day. 

And since I didn’t have to wait for other people to give me an answer, I actually moved ahead much faster than other members on the forum who need to be spoon fed the simplest topics of real estate that ca be taught to you with a few clicks on your keyboard.

With a regular, regulated lender neither one is legally possible and wouldn’t meet fed/state banking regulations.The current lender will either give you a discounted pay off, or they won’t.....that is your only solution to refi.The deferred principle makes this sound like a loan Modification done by a major lender.....not sure what a “balloon payoff penalty” is, sounds you are mixing up terminologies.

High grass, and violations posted on door.

I've even looked up properties on my local tax assessor's website to find homes with different mailing addresses to get a feel for (what I believe) I would be doing on the daily to find deals.Today, I was driving around my area and found a house that looked vacant and abandoned; tall grass, bordered up windows..

In total our grass income per-month is $2,555We also have 18k in debt.

It's doubtful that they have a "grass roots" acquisition division.

Temporary i extended the pipe with a extension so it lands on grass, but it then blocks parking to side of house.