This burnout led to me selling off my rentals, dissolving my business with family, and having my mother take over managing her own units.

A great deal will easily sell itself. 

Then when you sell another 22% and 8% on that gain?

 If you start selling houses in Virginia now 2.5 years from now your business would be humming along.

This is a penalty window where selling or refinancing out of the loan would cost you 1,2,3,4, or 5% of the amount you owe on the property as a penalty fee.

I work in acquisitions for wholesale and come across deals sometimes so amazing it hurts me to see my disposition team sell them.

Can we DSCR out of this to get our money back out or will I need to sell it to get our $136k total investment out?

When you sell, interview as many as you need until you feel very comfortable with the one you decide to work with.real estate is a big investment, and for me it's long term, I don't want to have buyer remorse because someone isn't as knowledge as I like.when I was younger,  I was more willing or less experienced,  today I want the same level of knowledge as I offer when I help someone with their tax planning or when I prepar their taxes.....Show me your high level of knowledge,  you are hired.

Since your lender requires prior experience building and selling/refinancing a single-family residence (SFR) on your own property, you may need to adjust your approach.

We've made some good money buying/selling cattle.