I will honor my agreement of refinancing or doing a loan assumption as soon as I'm able (I've been trying excessively over the past decade), however if he does force a sale, can I tack on the fact that I've paid all expenses including the mortgage for the past now 13 years to demand he reimburse me half, or is he entitled to half the equity and I'm just screwed out of everything I've put into the house?

What strategies have you used to communicate and negotiate with local authorities?

Contact the state and federal authorities responsible for oversight.

While you've taken the creative liberty of using an alias, the real issue here seems to be your penchant for continuously spreading misleading information all over the web (You've been BUSY).

You may need to play around with how you word your request, so you won't get charged for an excessive amount of pages. 

In both cases, you are authorized to enter and take possession.

You should only consider switching when your current software has a significant flaw or lacks features that force you to spend excessive time on workarounds.

It would be much harder to do any of this with existing electrical since it was giant web of a mess.

I then let them know the authorities have been notified.  

For database, Excel, Google Sheets, or AirTable (web based).