If they are, they should be able to clearly and confidently explain how they added value in that transaction. 

Is it industry standard to use Passthrough's, as the fee's collected for certain item's are simply collected by the management company, then paid directly to the property management company, making the transactions net to zero for presentation?

But it wasn’t a smooth transaction.

Has anyone had experience with this type of transaction?

Truth time: I suspect the reason you didn't get any responses back from these alleged "wholesalers and investors" is that hardly any of them are actually transacting deals!

No I am a transactional lender.

Will it match the statement amount up with the actual credit transaction for the bank account attached to Stessa?

I have come so far (daily personal Finance sheet, opened a small business, bough a home, and utilized as many tax strategies as best I can), yet I still feel so far from my freedom.

Selling your property now will incur commission fees, so you’ll take additional losses on the transaction.

Yes, you can generally use suspended PALs from other properties to offset gains when you fully dispose of a property in a taxable transaction.