Unfortunately at some point it is your problem if it is belligerent enough. 

ADUs can significantly enhance your property's value by adding living space that can be used for rental income or as additional living quarters for family members.The increase in value from an ADU can vary widely depending on several factors such as the size, quality, and functionality of the ADU, as well as its integration with the main property.

It isn't refinancing to take out money that I have a problem with, it's "cross collateralization".

I may have a solution that solves your problem

A lot of universities have students that need mid term housing due to graduation dates, mini semester programs, etc. and I've found if you approach them and offer them a solution to this problem, they are willing to work with you and help send business your way. 

I personally would have no problem evicting during the winter.

Nice to have a problem that the properties have appreciated so much that the LTV is below my desired LTV goal.  

As long as I finish up at the W2 in time to make the trip (usually not a problem), I'll be there.

If the assets makes financial sense to keep otherwise, hiring a PM solves your problem and allows you to keep a performing asset.

Who had no problem with my request to use the actual date.