Do a billion lower blocks and front punches - How do I grow lady swooning muscles like Arnold Schwarzenagerghweggwgergereerrr?

Pulling rank, or flexing your investor muscles with a negotiator will not get you far.

China is flexing its muscle.

Now when I just pull out my phone my muscle reflexes pull up yHE BP app.

It's like developing your muscles. 

You gain confidence by doing and as @David Greene says, "building that muscle".Congratulations on your home getting under contract by the way! 

Just get your hustle muscle on 💪 and people will gladly do business with you.At 24 years old you are probably more energetic and optimistic than most.Get educated and be so good that people have to pay attention.  

She's the creative one, and I'm just the muscle. ;-) How did you find this deal and how did you negotiate it?

I think there's pros and cons to both, but to be clear in other scenario I want to lead or be actively involved in finding and managing the deal so I can begin to build up that muscle.

This isn't a "women's essential oils" MLM or "men's fitness protein shake" pyramid scheme.