One of them was a young woman in her late twenties, who had been on the streets since she was 16.

I'm not stating that it's inherently wrong, but aspects of it have gotten out of control.

I have decided to work with a listing agent as I really need to get someone in here.

I think thinking about some of your hang ups and potential obstacles will help you to resolve it.

Wanted to chime in here since we've been buying rentals in Tulsa for a few years now. 

I am just going chime in here since most of the things are said by other BP members.Telling you not to fly/travel there so you can use the money for a downpayment.

Quote from @Stuart Udis: The natural buyer of the entry level SF homes have limited cash and therefore the biggest obstacle they face is funds to close.

Also owning RE you have way more control and inherently less risk by that.

Should I re evaluate what strategy I should use and maybe look further out in places such as Rochester and BRRR properties out thereHey @Jared Leggett, I know I'm jumping in here late in the game, and I have to admit that I haven't read all the many comments you've gotten, but I wanted to provide what I imagine and glean is a contrary view.It is easy to dunk on NYC for young investors starting out, but if you are a first time homebuyer you can buy a $1M property with $35k down (+ closing costs which can be avoided with seller's concessions).

If you win out a lien in her house.