I tried to skim most of the replies so I wouldn’t repeat what’s already been said but here’s my response to OP about real estate and retirement.
Treat it like a retirement plan, in fact I replaced my retirement contributions with real estate. This means…
Don’t count on it to cashflow, your 401k or your ROTH doesn’t cash flow, they never have. And yet every retirement expert tells you to sink every dollar you can afford in to these accounts.
From 2015-2020 everyone on BP was cash flow, cashflow, cashflow. Cashflow is guaranteed, Appreciation is gambling, blah blah blah. Then in 2020 it turned out cashflow wasn’t guaranteed, the government could burn your cashflow to the ground and you could lose everything. To me this was always a false narrative. All my rentals were in Vegas during the Great Recession. You tell me a market that was hit harder than Vegas? Well. I never made more money than that time period. Rents were skyrocketing, 10-20% annually. I had waiting lists of tenants for the first and only time in my career.
Personally I don’t think you are ready or that you should buy real estate if you NEED the cashflow. Especially if it’s less than $1,000/months per property. It’s just too easy for it to go away. In fact I went out of my way to get 15 year mortgages because I knew that even if I had zero or even negative cashflow I was literally making more money as my interest expense was lower. I care about income waaaay more than cashflow. I sank every dollar my rentals provided back in to paying off debt and acquiring more properties. (You know, zero cashflow, just like a retirement account.)Even today with only paid off properties generating a boatload of cashflow I generally make more every year on appreciation.
Sure, it took almost 10 years to retire, but compared to the 30-40 year plan most people use it was a dream come true. And none of that counts the 10’s of thousands in tax advantages I reap without any advanced skills or planning, the government just hands them out.
It’s not a binary on/off choice. Not convinced? Buy a new primary every 2-5-10 years, whatever you can afford. Keep it as a rental and I GUARANTEE your life will be better in 20-30 years than if you ignore me and the simple get slow plan. After all, if your 5% down properties only double in 20 years you’ll have 40x your money. And that extra $40-$50k a year will be life changing. Every single new investor wants to say it was easier “back then” or “it’s too hard/impossible today” so they don’t have to start today. When I was buying 1/2 price homes not ONE person I talked to said it was smart. EVERY single one said “aren’t you afraid they’ll keep dropping?” Now they tell me I was lucky I bought back then. I was buying homes for $100k with $25k of my money, and the mortgage was paid off by the tenants. Did they really think 3 year old Vegas homes would drop below $25k? Now they’re hoping they’ll drop below $525k.
You’re surrounded by a support group I never had, and that’s a positive. But I also didn’t have all the negative Nancys (sorry Nancys of the world) saying it was too risky too late or couldn’t be done. Maybe that’s why it was easier doing it alone. I literally didn’t know a person that owned 2 homes, much less a rental. I just did the math and it was obviously better than stock account retirement. And experts said that was a good idea. So if this was better it couldn’t be a bad idea. Get started and look back on today in 5-10 years with all your new knowledge. Keep asking questions. And Good luck. Sorry again to rant but I never plan my response beyond the first paragraph and I’m sure it shows.