Zachary, I'm a glutton for pain for getting into forum arguments with insurance salesmen, but I wanted to respond to you points, quoted below in italics:
- part of those fees is obviously cost of insurance. You might not think so, but that is worth something.
Yes, but insurance is much more affordable if you're just buying the insurance -- ie, term life insurance.
- the Guaranteed interest I’m seeing off WL companies right now is ranging from 2.5-4%. If you have a bank that’s paying 4%, let me know!
This is absolutely misleading. That percentage is not taking into account the cost of the insurance. I ran the numbers on an "infinite banking" policy that was generated for me and removed the dividend, so we were just looking at the guaranteed return. The actual IRR peaked at 2.32% in year 36. This was when Ally was offering 2.25% on its online savings account. Entirely comparable.
- Dividends aren’t guaranteed, but Mass Mutual has consistently paid one since the Civil War. Companies find a way to pay them.
And I'm sure you're aware that dividends have been declining every year for well over a decade. Here's a screengrab from a 2018 report put out by The Insurance Pro Blog:

- Annuities don’t pay close to what dividend earning WL does over time. You’re looking at two separate products for two separate intended purposes.
They certainly do when you compare the actual costs. If you compare when an annuity costs and what it pays vs. what a whole life policy actually costs and what it guarantees, annuities are a preferable option.
- Borrowing money from your house is much more difficult and expensive than borrowing from a WL policy. An equity loan will obviously have fees and you have to be approved. WL loans must be approved if there’s cash available and it’s a straight interest loan. As you pointed out, the policy grows even while you have a loan out.
This is a bunch of bunk, man. I got a $160K HELOC on my primary residence for a cost of $0. Yes, I had to be approved, but you argue that whole life policies are for people with money -- ie, the kind of people who don't have difficulty getting approved for a HELOC. And my home continues to appreciate even while I have the loan out, as I'm sure you're aware. Plus, when I decided I wanted that HELOC, I got to shop around for the rate and terms that benefited me most. On my specific HELOC, I have to pay interest and principle, but my rate is LIBOR -1%. I'm paying 2.24%! That's insane!
- Guaranteed interest is a big deal. On years where the market, housing, and incomes go down - that money still gets deposited. You probably don’t have the experience of going the 2008 and seeing 40% of your retirement accounts disappearing overnight.
I did. I was 26 years old and my retirement account was only $40K or so, but I watched my portfolio drop 40%. It was especially painful because I'd saved all of that money in the previous two years. But, as I'm sure you know, market volatility is fine early in a person's career. Are you suggesting somebody very near retirement would benefit from buying whole life insurance instead of an annuity?
- You never considered the benefit of all of this happening tax free.
The tax-free element is about all the whole life policy has going for it. I just don't think the juice is worth the squeeze.
- I understand. When you don’t have money you’re not worried about insurance or reducing taxes, or the security of guaranteed interest. This kind of product isn’t for everyone- it may not be for you. It doesn’t mean no one should have it. Either your father-in-law is the financial moron you think he is, or he’s seen the real changes that come about from his policy. Did you ever review his policy to see if it actually did well?
Firstly, to insure my family, my wife and I have term life policies totaling $5.5M ($2.5M for her and $3M for me as I earn a little more). Obviously, we'd never buy a whole life policy for this amount as the premium would be crushing.
Secondly, to reduce taxes, my wife and I both invest heavily in our SEP and Roth IRAs, mine through my C corp and hers through her LLC. I know these options aren't available to everybody, but to sell whole life insurance as the only tax mitigation strategy is baloney.
Thirdly, my father-in-law certainly isn't a financial moron, but I don't think he's right about whole life insurance. He did share the details of his policy when we discussed this in 2018 (as well as a screenshot of his policy page, which I won't share.) He opened a $50K convertible whole life policy in 1983. The annual premium is about $2500. The death benefit in 2018 was $340K, and the cash value was $115K. In 2018, the dividend was a little more than $7100. As my father-in-law put it, "The dividend is now more than $7100 which is a nice return on the $115,000 cash value." Those are his exact words from the email.
But I'm looking at the numbers and seeing that my father-in-law put $2500 into his policy for 25 years. If you put $2500 into an index fund earning, say, 7% annually, your portfolio would be worth $169,000 in year 25. "But the death benefit is $340K!," you'd say. Yes, you're right. Comparing apples and oranges for sure....
Anyway. Thanks!