Quote from @Alf Penland:
You'd be surprised at what people can do when they are faced with not having a place to live in these situations. Often times, an accusation/action and restraining order are issued as a first course of action in a divorce where kids or substantial assets are in play. It sounds like there are not substantial assets, but kids are.
If it were my property, I would let the guy have the opportunity to pay the rent and also have a conversation giving him the options you outlined above. He may have someone ready to move in that would qualify and continue being a good tenant paying rent. They may decide to get out of the lease with the penalties.
Worst case, you outline all the options and follow up with an eviction if needed with non-payment of rent. However, this option is harmful to the dad/tenant in a divorce/custody situation and he won't choose this unless it's the only option...
Fully agree. I have yet to have a full conversation with either of them on what their future plans are on the lease. I figured I'd give them a few days to get through the hardship before I sent a formal email outlining the possible options. As of right now, neither of them have said "we will need to break the lease." I'm sure in times like this, they are not really sure what to do and are pretty emotional.
I will just have to see what their plans are and move forward from there. I doubt I will have to move forward with an eviction, if anything we will agree on a move out date, they will pay last month rent and I keep security deposit. I will not have to wait for a non-payment as I believe we will be able to agree on something quickly and professionally. I'm sure he, nor she, wants an eviction on top of his current charge!
I will keep you all updated as I discuss with them this week their final plans. Best case scenario, it's just a rough time and they continue to pay rent and live there (depending how his trial goes) ; worst case, they have to break the lease and I have to find new tenants (already have a family lined up - previous tenant that lived there).