I just want to follow up with my meeting for those of you who answered.
This was not a meeting for me to get something out of it, other than his time and advice and an open door for future correspondence. I.e building that circle of trust, so the option for private money is available later, without asking for it now, for now I will use hard money.
We had coffee and he gave me two hours of his time and some great advice, though not necessarily what I wanted to hear! I laid out my elevator pitch and was honest about my current and future plans.
He thinks I should scrap my "dream plan" and go for the opportunities I have right in front of me. Bird in the hand, forest for the trees, move the target closer, that kind of stuff, lol. Basically, like Robert Kiyosaki, he said it boils down to cash flow and laid out how I should increase cash flow sooner vs later.
His advice was sound and honest, but sometimes it takes an unbiased third party to point out the obvious. Especially when there is emotion involved.
But best of all, he reached out afterwards to ask how the discussion went with my wife, and told me to keep him informed of how my discussion goes with my father (who's business he suggested I talk about taking over).
So did I open the door to further discussions and begin developing a relationship? Yes, so I'd call it a win.
Thanks guys for your help.
PS knowing I can ramble sometimes, I watched this Lynda.com video on elevator pitches and it helped boil mine down to 20 seconds or so. Hope it helps someone else.
http://www.lynda.com/Business-Skills-tutorials/Giving-Your-Elevator-Pitch/157139-2.html