The military has transferred me to multiple states. I'm literally on the opposite side of the country. Two of my properties have HOAs but my son is helping me manage them. He's 19 and welcomes just about any challenge that comes to him. I pay him about half of what a professional would cost because I help with everything. So for now, those are doing well.
I have another house which is section 8. The renter has good communication with me but the section 8 program actually performs in-house visits to ensure everything is well. Not bad! In fact I want more section 8 homes because it's been so great! This house is not managed by anyone but I do find myself in that area so I'm able to visit the home occasionally.
I also have a duplex which I purchased at my last assignment. My coworker and friend is helping me manage it. I pay a reduced price but I'm also very involved in the process. With a recent terrible experience, my friend stepped in to clean the mess. So I was grateful he was there... he performed far beyond what a professional would do.
At times, I wonder if I am making the wrong decision by not having professional management. It's also possible to have pay a lot of money and not be satisfied with a management company... so I think I'm doing pretty well.
If I lived within an hour of my house, I would certainly manage it myself. There's no replacement for self management.
Good Luck!
Darrell