@Rhonda Healey Best advice I can give is to establish your process, set expectations with your tenants, and follow through with actions. Our rent is due on the 1st, payable by the 5th. On the 6th, we assess the late fee and issue the courtesy pay or quit notice (courtesy because it's not required by our lease), on the 12th they get a termination notice and the eviction paperwork is filed. Like clockwork, no questions asked. Unfortunately you have to leave the emotions at the door. This is a business, and if you don't treat it as such you will lose money very quickly.
Interestingly enough, both tenants called me, one before they got the termination notice, and one after they got the termination notice. I actually explained the eviction process to both of them...with a smile on my face. Told them both it was nothing personal...strictly business. Both told me they were planning to pay 'by Friday', of course that Friday has yet to arrive.
When you have great tenants, you treat them as such. We try to do something at least twice a year for our great tenants, like a gift card around the holidays and cards around their birthdays. Had a tenant that was planning to move out at the end of this month, she called a few days ago asking to stay another 6 months. I agreed and also agreed to keep her rent at the same price. They've paid on time for 13 months, and had she moved we would have had 3 non-performing units for June. Hoping the goodwill gesture of not increasing the rental rate as previously planned convinces them to stay longer than 6 months.
Good luck to you in this business! It can be stressful at times, but I love it nonetheless!