I am behind because of a job loss 3 years ago. I have tried over and over to work out a way to catch up, and sent in several "good faith" large lump sum payments to HSBC. They did not approve a loan mod each time, and put my payments towards thousands in late fees, legal fees, billing fees, etc. HSBC is evil :)
The mortgage got sold several months ago to some trust fund, with Caliber Home Loans servicing it. They finally offered a mod, but it was not very good. Short selling, getting out, and starting over seems like the best bet.
I did sell several of my Pinball machines when I was trying to catch up with the large lump payments, but as mentioned above it didn't help much. I am now sort of determined not to have to sell any more unless I really need too.
Thanks for all of the advice everyone, I am really loving this site. Been doing the podcasts on my commute too--they are awesome!
Any more advice on doing or finding Owner financing would be great!
Thanks everyone :)