Hi Brian,
I am a hard money lender in CO, it can be very different in TX.
I agree with all of your positives- of course. But would like to comment on some of the potential negatives
6)- Points and fees can be seen as an opportunity cost. Of course we all ideally invest in real estate with no money out of pocket, but better to pay to do a great deal than not do a deal at all. The larger margins are important for the lender to protect their investment, as wells as yours. If you plan to refinance, the rate and term is going to require some equity, in our market it 75% LTV, we lend 70%
7-8)You can work with a mortgage broker to see what you will be qualified for on the refi, look for lenders with no title seasoning. Without title seasoning you can use HM to acquire and repair, then refi to long term money 30 days after your work is complete. Wash, Rinse, Repeat and keep acquiring rental properties without putting 25% down.
9) Work with a lender that wants you to be successful. I look at every clients deal to ensure they will be profitable, there are always unknowns but another set of eyes on a deal doesn't hurt.
10) In our business as long as the repairs make sense and the dollars allocated are appropriate, I have no problem with the investor doing their own work.
Most HML's do not report to credit on the loan, too short of a term and too much work to report. Although in the event of a default it is a full foreclosure and it will affect credit.
The secret is, in 99% of loans the lender doesn't want the property and will probably work with you to extend. If you are priced right and understand the business there is no reason a loan should go to term.