Denise,
There are two was to invest in Out of State Markets. One is to build your own team of quality venders that will help you, most important may be the boots on the ground, The other is to find a Turnkey provider that can be trusted.
The investors that I work with like the ease of the Turnkey approach. There are a number of good stories on the threads of investors that are very happy the invested out of state. From my own experience, I never thought I could invest and not be hands on, until I did it.
I have worked with a number of investors in your same situation and because they have a good W2 job or a business that they are running, they are looking for something easer. Nothing is 100% passive but if you work with someone how has already built a team you can benefit from their experience.
Some investors have found that working with the right team even in challenging markets can be a pleasant and profitable venture.