Quote from @Ron Brady:
@Thomas Harris It sounds like your wife has been talking to mine :)
I concur with your perspective about missing out on the financial upside of charging near-market rents at turns. I've also had many drawn-out "discussions" with my wife regarding both the right rent amounts and about communicating clearly and plainly with tenants around lease violation issues and late rent payments. My wife tends to argue for lower rents and less clear/more delayed communications with tenants for fear the tenants will stop paying rent, not renew, etc. While I am convinced that I am right--and luckily she does not read the BP forums so I will not get in trouble for sharing this with you--winning the argument and staying happily married are not always compatible.
A compromise we've stumbled into is that our portfolio is now made up of two types of homes, a) four by-the-rooms and b) three furnished medium-term rentals (30-120 days). My wife has given me full discretion to price the medium term rentals as there is already built-in regular turns and often these are traveling professionals whose employers are footing the bill, so my wife doesn't sweat taking company's money versus individuals. I then put less pressure on her about our by-the-room rental prices being below market.
In sum, you're right but I recommend that your happy marriage is more important than the added cash flow and to proceed accordingly.
Best wishes to you both.
Hi Ron, thank you for sharing your personal experience. My wife does the same things! We’ve waived many,
many late fees for previous tenants in the past at her request. Let lease violations slide, and reminded tenants that the rent is past due every.single.month. If we didn’t remind them the rent was due, they probably wouldn’t pay. She is too easy on the tenants and I have to remind her that the lease is there for a reason. The tenants read it and signed it. We wouldn’t be cruel for enforcing it.
It’s gotten better over the years as our quality of tenants have improved but she still is overly sympathetic with them in my opinion. I like our tenants and care about them. They are all decent people who work hard and some have families to support. But at the same time so do we. Who helps us out? No one. I think charging fair rent is a good middle ground that will keep everyone happy.
Sounds like you have a great system. I actually would like to raise the rent a bit closer to market, but I settled for $1,000 as a compromise for her. That $150/month still hurts but it’s a lot better than losing $375/month.
I hear ya, buddy. Happy wife, happy life. We discussed this some more today and she agreed that I am not being unreasonable with my $1,000 price. She still worries a bit about losing a good tenant but we’ve gotten great tenants with our last 3 vacancies. She just needs to remember that. There are many nightmare tenants out there but many good ones as well. And if she’s burned out from all the turnovers, we’ll hire someone to do the work. I’m a bit burned out myself.
Best wishes to you and your wife!