@Steve Vaughan I love that you brought up the Pareto Principle. It truly applies in any and every situation. The truth of the matter is, is as many people mentioned real estate agents are transactional. To @Adam Blachnio 's point, having a commission life style which does not lead to thinking about one's future.
The unfortunate and most contributing factor is how society has built our expectations. Most people are taught to think about what's in front of them, the next shiny object, or even how much can I afford per month? Think about this as it applies to mortgages. A mortgage at 5% is basically a bank saying that we will give you the money for this $100,000 house and at the end of it take $90,000 in interest. Oh but your monthly payment will only be about $650, is that okay?
The ultimate point is that people in general, not just realtors, are not great stewards of their money. Short term gain and societal views on money make the less disciplined people spend so much more. It's gotten even worse with social media because the 1% lifestyle is in front of people's faces even more now. And even those not in the 1% are fronting in their social media by renting mansions and exotic cars for a day to do their videos.
Just live below your means and invest the rest. Until your means are high enough that work for the lifestyle that you want, just keep chugging along. Everyone has a different view on success. Good luck everyone!
@Ade AmooThank you for supporting the point and yes, the Millionaire Next Door is a great book to read that really drives the point home.
@Jay Hinrichs I completely agree with you about the 1099 part as well. As a 1099 independent contractor, our goal at the end of the year is to expense out our lifestyle and as much as we can to get our effective income as low as possible. This does not work well when you're trying to qualify for a loan which requires or rather looks favorably upon higher incomes.
@Suly B. Thank you for being you. Seriously, rockstars that rejoice in living well below their means are the ones that will pave the path to their own future. Most people think they have an income problem when it's really an expense problem. The old addage rings true "More money, more problems". Work on playing defense with your finances first because that is the #1 thing that you can control. From there it's all about the direction you want to take YOUR money. Don't work for your money, have your money work for you.