Thank you @Rick Martin for the unbiased and helpful breakdown. As an accredited investor who has looked hard at a number of syndications, sponsors, and attended several events in the space I would like to briefly argue the counterpoint which represents my investment strategy. I think there is a some considerable blue ocean in the 15-80 unit space for investors who function as operators and are willing to embrace the pain of being quite active.
The difficulty, for me, in the comparison is that both investments were sold. I understand that there are exceptions to the rule, but syndications have an exit. The vast majority of these exits are sales. You do not get to impact the time or details of the exit. The laments of the $200/month cashflow are short sighted in that the cashflow is compressed by your debt service which will, with the aide of your residents, expire. Then cashflow is to the moon, but your return on equity has to be examined. Harvest the equity and compress the cashflow according to your desire at the time, but wherever you decide to move that slider the considerable difference is that you maintain the asset.
If you can function in that 15-80 unit niche, can successfully reposition yourself, refinance into agency debt, and then hold... In my humble opinion, that is the promised land. As @Steve Rozenberg wisely pointed out, there are many roads to Rome, but if there’s anyone else out there discouraged while negotiating truck pricing on your flooring for your 20 unit, take heart in the fact that you are not alone!