@Seth Rose Total get where you are coming from. I have only done a few deals but the thing I constantly having to remind myself is R/E is a long game. What do you want that to look like for you? I have done a few things, I have rentals, I have driven for dollars, I have sent out marketing, I have knocked on a few doors, and I have flipped houses. You may not know what you want until you try it but one thing is for sure you just need to get started.
as @Account Closed has said, the BRRR strategy is a LOT of work. His point on the revenue perspective is right on. It is straightforward, results are more predictable, and repeatable just like the BRRR, but it's slower. I am nearing the end of my hardest flip and after I am complete I am finding a multifamily ASAP, save the cash flow and repeat. I could refi and have the property for free plus maybe 5k and $120/mo but to me - that just isn't a good return. My wife and I both have full time jobs, take care of our 2 boys and I have spent almost every day off for the last 8 mo working on this house. Not to mention it's 70 miles away and the stress/sleepless nights. 5k and a free property? It's not free. Flipping with the intent to BRRR became a 3rd job.