I am going to jump out there and say I am the wholesaler. Now the reference he requested was the buyer of my first transaction. Which I did not like but was even even going to give him it. I contacted the buyer and got the go ahead. But I was pretty hesitant and continued to @Paul Jamgotch what the conversation was going to entail (A quality buyer for a wholesaler is as good as gold).
@Joel Owens
Like I said I would do it but ever unhappy about it. After Pauls BS meter went off because I was pretty considered with was going to be exchanged. Special after finding out that the main reason for the reference was just to confirm the deals were done. I also offered to send him closing docs prior to his BS meter went off. As of now he has already received those as well. But the skeptical nature that arose in Paul was based off of a wholesaler not wanting to give his quality buyers information for a reference to confirm transactions. (it did not make sense to me) When there are first of more effective means of proof and less data invasive contacts. ie. escrow officer, closing docs, bank statements with the deposits, speaking with others on my power team, ect.