@Skip Gilliam
Heres a couple questions/ things to consider...
If you left your job today, could you make it on your wife's income? Beans and rice style if you had to? Or could you rearrage some things so that was possible?
I love real estate and am moving towards full time real estate investing. I currently own and opperate a small landscapig and lawn care company in Hartsville, SC. I hope to be making similar income as you currently do with flipping houses very soon. I whole heartedly believe that much more is possible with the right systems and people in place. There are poeple on this board who do insane ammounts of volume. The sky really is the limit in real estate. It all depends on how you play your cards.
I'm 29 and have been involved in real estate since 2009, but only in the past 2 years become really serious about it, thanks in part to bigger pockets. So, take my advise for what you think it's worth. I'm not a total newbie, but far from an expert.
I've bought 2 properties, and learned a ton on both. I sold one for a $13K profit after renting it for a year and a half. The other one, I rented for a year and a half, rennovated it, and will be closing next week pulling 38K out with a cash out refiance, and renting for $700 a month with a $260/month payment.
With that kind of money in retirement accounts, it's worth reading up on self directed 401K and self directed IRA's. There are specific rules that must be followed, but you can do some neat stuff there like lending to flippers. With your w2 income, you will be very favorable to banks if you don't already have a ton of debt.
Trying to make a 100K a year? Heres one way that could happen. Team up with a flipper who REALLY knows what they are doing. Do 10 deals a year with $20K profit/ deal. Thats $200K profit. I've seen a lot of 50/50 deals. That would mean the flipper made 100K and you made 100K. Yes, that's a very simplified example, but not unreasonable. Yes, taxes must be considered, which I'm no expert on. I'm doing something very similar to this now with a trusted individual who has the money. I'm working my way up to being able to help people like you as well, but I'm not ready for that yet. Maybe in a year or so, after I have more deals under my belt :) Trust is the big key to something like this. There is a lot of room for bad things to happen, but if it works, it will be beautiful.
The other thing to consider is flipping versus buy and hold. Most people on here will tell you that flipping builds cash and renting builds wealth. My strategy is flips in the short term to build cash to invest in rentals for the long term.
Spend time on the forums to get a solid grip on the real estate game. Theres a lot to soak up, and it takes time. Listen to the podcast as well.
Oh, and welcome to the site, Sir!