@Tyler Garza almost every property I purchase I do so with the rehab credit strategy. I haven't met anyone else who uses this strategy the same way I do but it has been probably the one thing that has helped me scale as quickly as I have over the years.
Let me share some thoughts and perspective with you.
Love your wife, but help her understand and see the financial benefits of sacrificing now for the comforts and freedoms that early sacrifices will make in the long term.
We purchased our first home when I was almost 29 years old. It was a fixer-upper. We purchased it for 135k and we put into it about 15k in repairs, of which most of the work we did ourselves. While we lived at this house I took a home equity line on our home and I bought a house in our neighborhood at market value because I didn't know any better. This was our first rental.
After living in our first home for 4 years we sold it and purchased another home that was a fixer-upper that had a guest house in the back. We rented out the guest house to family members and we rehabbed the primary home.
We then moved to a different state (from Arizona to California) but we knew it would be temporary so we kept our house in Arizona and we rented out the main house as well.
While living in California we purchased a small house - 2 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms. But it also had a small 200 square foot guest house in the back which we rented out for $1500. We were a family of 7 living in a 2-bedroom home. We were living on top of each other. Four kids in one room and the baby in our room. I commuted back and forth from Arizona to California for 4 years and when I would stay in Arizona I stayed on the fold out couch in the living room of the guest house behind my Arizona primary home because my mother-in-law still lived in the bedroom.
During this time of living in Arizona for 4 days and California for 3 days a week, my business partner and I built a large real estate portfolio through hustling and finding good deals. We used the lease option strategy so we would buy properties under market value and we would keep them for only around 3-5 years and then we would sell them and trade them up for more properties with the equity that was created. We didn't take any money from our real estate business for 5 years. We just reinvested everything back into our real estate businesses.
I'm 2019 I found a nice property on the market that would suit my family really well. It was 6 bedrooms, 5 bathrooms on almost an acre of land. I noticed the seller started out trying to sell it for $800,000 but he was lowering it pretty aggressively. I showed the house to a mentor of mine and said that I was considering purchasing it. He told me I should and then helped me purchase it. When the price had been reduced to $680,000 I put in an offer for $640,000 cash. They accepted the offer. I then had my mentor who was also a hard money lender purchase the house and sell it to me on a lease option. But rather than closing on the house at $640,000 he closed on it at $750,000 with a $110,000 rehab credit because that is where the value should come in at. Then when I exercised the option within a few months. Because he purchased it with the rehab credit, the appraisal came in at $755,000. I got a primary loan for around $530,000 and a second loan for $110,000 so my total out of pocket was about $10,000 for closing costs. I did pay about $6000 a month in interest to him until I refinanced it. But during that time, I rented out all of the rooms for about a year which brought in about $4500 a month to offset the majority of the monthly payment.
Then we sold the house in California and moved my family back to Arizona into our nice, big house which my wife has been beautifying since we moved in. I was 39 years old when we moved into our dream home.
I share my journey with you to help you see the unconvential path that we went on for a decade and how that helped us get to where we are today. We sacrificed comforts, moved into homes where we could add value or offset the payments by house hacking and continued to trade up over a decade. I was able to work at my counseling practice and my wife was able to stay home with our kids.
Here are a couple of principles you can take away from my journey if you would like.
1. Figure out ways to offset your living expenses or buy properties that you can add value to and then trade up within 3-4 years.
2. Be willing to live unconventionally and sacrifice for a time period so that you can have what you want. I tell people that if they don't have a net worth to buy their dream house in cash then they aren't ready to buy their dream house.
3. Be willing to reinvest the gains of your business for several years without taking money out of it in order to grow it into something significant that can help you get your dreams.