Originally posted by @Joshua Howaniec:
I should just leave it at that last post an shut-up but somethings eating at me...
I read all your comments on this thread and you don't sound like a dumb guy. You don't strike me as a guy to be taken. So I'm a little curious as to why you were almost seduced into this, could have something to do with your dad's condition or your own circumstances. Either way, I'm not writing to reprimand you but rather to point out that you clearly have the intelligence to make REI work for you in a good honest style.
Use some creativity and you can work your way out of all this mess.
Good luck
Hey Joshua, I appreciate the question actually. Had me thinking all night, "you know, he's right. How did you almost fall for this?" I think the best answer is several factors. #1 I did have a level of trust with Mike over the course of several years, we both serve in the military together and without giving away too much about him, he's in a position of authority, not over me, but still high. He is much older than me, and has watched my back in the military, helping me in many ways. So I guess I never questioned if I could trust him, why wouldn't I? He was my mentor after all. #2, realize that when I tell the story on here that it is after several months, and I have replayed the scene in my head many times, mulling over the details, thinking about it for a long time before I put pen to paper. In the moment, things were not as clearly red flags as I am able to tell them now.
Also, keep in mind I still have never paid a dime, and they haven't tried to push me or even talk about it since. We continue to work together, and it has never come up. The strategy had many legitimate elements to it. Bits and pieces of good business models strewn together, if you will. So only in hindsight is it so blatantly bad. I'm not even certain they intended it to be a scam, they may have just had an idea, and brought me in its infancy, only to realize that it needs a lot of work to be legit, and perhaps even legal.
I do continue to invest in real estate, not with these guys, but on my own. Always looking for creative ways to increase my trajectory. I'm thankful for everyone's inputs and discussions.