To expand on previous thoughts in the thread. We are int he middle of a real estate boom. Everytme real estate booms the market gets flooded with eal estate agents who think its a quick buck. I'd wager that over 60% of current agents have never worked in a down RE market. Meaning they dont know HOW to work.
A whole bunch are lazy.
So if you want them to work for you, you have to manage them. Ideally you go find a good agent. That will be hard from half a world away. So short of that create systems for yourself to make the deal work.
As others have alluded to. Saying 'I want you to call me to disucss this property in 3 weeks'...An agent hears that and says: 1- This may be a scam 2- This guy may not be serious 3- If the guy is serious he may not have the money 4- If he is serious and has the money we probably are going to get beat by another investor. 5 if everything goes right and this guy buys this property and uses me since he is half a world away I am going to have to do extra work since he isnt local (remember I just told you they were likely lazy)---and even if I get pastt all this. Its a $30k property. 6% commission split between aseller and buyer and then my broekr takes 50% of my 3% So I only make $450. Taxes eat 35% so I clear $292. Then I have to drive to a closing and do paperwork and and and...Ill just pass.
That's the inertia you are fighting.
You could fix some of that by better wording your intro. I want to buy this house. I know I have to wait 21 days, but if it clears 21 ddays I want to write an all cash offer on day 22. I want you to represent me. If you are not interested in this deal please let me know so I can find someone else.
Personally on these small $$$ REOs I always work with the sellers agent or someone in their office. Their broker is then doubele engaged to make them work and get the deal done. Its still small peanuts $$$ wise but brokers like short DOM values. So they will encourage them to close quickly.
Finally, the biggest mistake you made was almost buying this property. I know this property. I wouldnt take it for free. And I live 20 minutes from it