J-Scott- i sent you message--Thanks!
Roger- Yes that does help i just wish i wouldve known back then what i know now. I am very familiar with the construction process since thats what i do/have done before. Ive expanded on my skills but i know exactly what i could tackle and what i would contract out( for example i can drywall but have no desire to do it myself on a project for the simple fact of time/energy it takes however i would do light framing and finish work myself since ive done it alot more). Having a checklist like J Scott has is a good list for getting that stuff in order when having to get estimates in order.
Here what id like to know, where do contractors find low cost materials? it seems like what i can find is way more expensive than what they find, what did i miss? and how about all the research you guys do, where are you looking because google doesnt always give the answers i want to know, is there any other avenues im not looking at?