@Greg Torian, sorry to hear that. You may want to skip on the mortgage brokers and try working with a lender directly (i.e, I'd take @Joseph Scorese invitation to reach out). We were running into the same issue you did, and finding a mortgage bank opened a whole series of possibilities. Your loan officer will be your ally in this. Obviously your intentions to move into the property have to be true and honest, and you may have to provide proof that your current home is going to be rented like a singed leased on your current property and maybe even a deposit into a rental security account. But with the right lender, and if your are indeed going to OO, you should be able to get an FHA loan.
Starting to build a good relationship with a local lender will pay off. Listen to the podcast with Arthur Garcia (is one of the first 10 podcast). He offers a good bit on this.
The other alternative - at least as it was presented to us - is an investment loan, which requires 25% down in addition to the 6 months PITI for all properties (and yes, you are supposed to have this anyways, but in NJ that adds up quickly because of taxes).
Good luck!