thanks everyone for the advice ! I know it sounds like I'm trying to convince myself, as @Brent Coombs mentioned, I think my impatience is getting the better of me. But I did buy this property and another property both in cash. So I would like to get my cash back to use for other potential investment properties that I recently came across. And I don't think that with all BRRRR's will you get 100% of you investment back all the time. I'm ok with spending 12k on this house because with the other house I bought I will make all that money back. The other house I bought was for 30k put 15k for repairs and will have ARV of 90-100k, so that one I will wait for the 6 months!
This refinance is with a private lender and as @Stephanie P. mentioned my credit did play a factor, it recently came down a bit because of all the expenses :( and they are only looking at my score to qualify me, and by the way I did contact your company but they could not help me, don't remember what was the reason though.
This refinance or finance would be an adjustable rate loan after 5 years, and if I was to go this route I would probably refi again after 5 years. Maybe then I'll be in a better position.
If anyone has a better option for my situation just send me a PM. thx