Wow, the comments from men here are generally despicable. Hi. I have a husband but I work with all my subs directly. They know he does not know this business so they don't talk to him. You need a crew of people you trust. Unfortunately, that means you have some people who will try to screw with you because you're a woman or they think you're an easy mark. I have been messed with before. I learned some things. I didn't work with them again. I think part of vetting people is about making sure they meet with you in person to bid the job. I ask a lot of questions that indicate that I know the specifics of the work they are going to do. Even if I don't know the work, I'll post in the electricians reddit or something along these lines so I can talk the talk. I now have a great plumber, electrician, carpentry/general GC type, demo guys, concrete, etc, and some other folks to do what I need. That said, I still have to manage them. My GC type is always like, "well, this costs x" or something. I'm always saying, "Bring me the receipt for your materials and I'll pay those directly." When I review the receipt, if I see a discrepancy, or if I'm paying for a tool that I don't get to keep at the end of the job, I deduct it from the next check. I usually split checks into multiple payments. If they balk, I tell them that this is due to my loan, or my relationship with my lender, or my accountant says, or whatnot. These guys require active management. That means calling their bluff if they try to pull something with you. And then you need to get signed waivers every time. That signed waiver corresponds to them getting their last check and only after a walkthrough of the work is done, including sign off on punch list. If something's not done, no check. Keep trying. It sounds to me that you just need some better subs, and to do more research on how much time/money stuff might cost. Get multiple estimates and if someone works out, hire them again and again and refer them to others too. You can DM me if you want to talk more about this or if you want some sub recommendations.