I took the leap and bought two rental properties (4 units each) over the last year. I have made a lot of mistakes so far, and I know that, and I can't go back and change it - but I'm writing this now because I don't know if I should stay the course, change the course but keep going, throw in the towel, or some other option I can't even imagine. I'm writing here because I feel like I could really use some insight right now. I just don't know what to do.
I spent several years learning about real estate investing before jumping in - I read books, listed to the BP podcast and others, and read lots of blogs/forum posts. My goal is long term passive income, and I love learning how to fix and remodel things. So rentals seemed perfect!
Finally, I took the leap and got my first 4plex almost a year ago. I had actually been keeping an eye on listings for awhile, but this was the first one where I thought the numbers worked well. This 4plex - the first I bought - had tenants paying about half of fair market rent for the area. The building had good bones, but lots of deferred maintenance, including a shower wall leak between 2 units that could have meant water damage between walls, so it was recommended that I get all tenants to leave at once since all the bathrooms needed to be totally gutted. (Now I know the damage was almost non-existent, so that was a big mistake. But I emptied the whole building instead of just one unit at a time.)
The contractor bids I got were all way higher than anticipated, so I took on a lot of the work myself and have the GC I hired mostly doing stuff that is way outside of my current capabilities. He does good work but it's going so slowly - I thought the work would have been done at least a month or two ago, even with some delays due to out of stock fixtures.
I'm also a big part of the delay. I work full time and I'm getting run ragged being at the building 25-30 hours a week plus my day job. And I'm slow, so it takes me longer to do a lot of the stuff I'm ding myself.
In the midst of this, a deal came up for a second 4plex that also had good numbers, so I put in a bid, thinking I'd never get it - but surprise, I did! It's a great place, but keeping up with the tenant requests/minor maintenance things, the rehab at the first 4plex, and my day job is really, really getting to me. (I also got covid, which mean I lost 2 weeks of the rehab work I was doing alone. I'm lucky my case wasn't worse because I had a family member who was down for 3 weeks.)
Currently, 2 of the units being rehabbed are close to being ready to rent - maybe ready for pictures/ads by mid-October. But then it means tenant screening, showings, and once they get rented, dealing with more tenant requests while trying to finish the other 2 units.
I love parts of what I'm doing with these rehabs/rentals, I really do. I feel so lucky and grateful that I get to learn all this, some days. But... there's also a lot I don't like, and so much that I'm coming to absolutely dread. For a long time, I thought this was what I really wanted, but sometimes, I really doubt it. I don't know if I'm just running on empty, or if I'm not on the right path.
I know the feeling of something being so hard in the moment, but looking back on it, realizing it was all worth it. Maybe this is one of those situations.
Thank you for listening - I appreciate any thoughts, any wisdom. I know I'm lucky to have these problems - but I'm really stuck right now.