Okay, I appreciate the feedback.
As per BP, this was a cash offer, no contingencies. I did ask the realtor to provide a list of closing costs right after I sent in a !0% EMD. I was not expecting closing to be free. I have been through this several times before. The big item on the list was the FL doc stamp (0.7%). I checked the contract and it was clearly stated that the buyer has to pay that. No problem. Everything else on the list was minor.
The FL contract and Freddie addendums leave no stone unturned. I can't see where I am responsible for a fee from a servicer that is working for someone else, unless I agreed to it verbally or in writing. What else does the title company do beside provide the title and policy? Why isn't "customary" buyers fees spelled out in the state contract or the addendums?
I guess I really am complaining that a business can charge undefined customary fees at the last minute in a transaction and no one says anything.